Maria Kang- Part 2… Oh NO, She Didn’t!!!

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I am angry. She did it again. Maria Kang that is. Remember the fitness guru mom who posed hovering over her three young sons clad in short shorts and a sports bra, and captioned the photo WHAT’S YOUR EXCUSE?

While the photo was most likely intended for the fitness conscious, it was posted publicly on her fitness based Facebook page and went over with the grace of an elephant in lead pointe shoes.

All hell broke lose in the media.

I personally thought it was a brassy move on her part and wrote kind of a spoof post about it here.

http://extrememom.net/2013/10/25/bite-me-maria-kang-2/

I got a lot of hate mail and responded here.

http://extrememom.net/2013/10/26/the-world-is-a-bazillion-shades-of-grey-dont-be-judgy-2/

Anyway, now that you’re caught up, she’s back in the news. This time she was temporarily banned from Facebook for hate content.

Link- http://www.news10.net/news/article/264373/2/Hot-Mom-Maria-Kang-banned-from-Facebook-for-hate-speech

Apparently, when she saw an article online from the Daily Mail showing plus-size women posing in lingerie, she logged onto her Facebook page and started writing.

THIS- http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2511403/Plus-size-women-post-photos-Curvy-Girl-Lingerie-celebrate-real-beauty.html

She wasn’t very supportive, open minded or caring in her thoughts.

Maria Kang wrote- “The popular and unrelenting support received to those who are borderline obese (not just 30-40lbs overweight) frustrates me as a fitness advocate who intimately understands how poor health negatively effects a family, a community and a nation,” Kang said.

“While I think it’s important to love and accept your body, I was a little peeved because I think that we’re normalizing obesity in our society,” Kang said.

Dear Maria Kang,

You are an insensitive cold-hearted bitch. I’m shocked that you have the audacity to make such a profoundly negative statement. It leads me to believe that you are in fact so narrow minded that you actually BELIEVE women choose to be obese, because they’re simply too lazy to exercise and eat right.

Do you seriously think that?

Perhaps your tunnel vision goes no further than the healthy fit women you see at the gym.

Since I’ve been an RN for over 20 years, let me enlighten YOU as to what I’ve seen in this vast world of ours that’s a bazillion shades of grey.

Some women happen to have perfectly good EXCUSES, which by the way is a bullshit term, as it implies laziness and blame. I prefer the word circumstances.

You obviously chose the word EXCUSES for it’s shock effect.

The thing is- you perfectly proportioned exercise Barbie doll that happened to win the genetic lottery, the world isn’t perfect. People aren’t perfect. There are a lot of VARIABLES in other women’s lives preventing them from looking like you and that’s OKAY.

How dare you say that that’s NOT okay?

For a host of different reasons many women will never be thin or physically fit. How dare you shame them?

<< the following is an excerpt from the second post I wrote in October- The World is a Bazillion Shades of Grey Don’t be Judgy >>

I speak for the masses of women whose dreams are unachievable due to circumstances beyond their control.

I speak for single moms working two jobs to make ends meet, who barely have time to cook, clean, do laundry and read their kids a bedtime story.

I speak for those trapped in abusive or controlling relationships who don’t have choices.

I speak for those with mental health issues like depression, post traumatic stress disorder and disabling anxiety who expend every last bit of energy simply trying to muster through the day.

I speak for those with medical conditions for which they must take daily medication that causes adverse effects like nausea or extreme fatigue.

I speak for those who’ve been involved in motor vehicle accidents who have difficulty climbing stairs or getting out a chair.

I speak for those with arthritis, fibromyalgia, chronic fatigue syndrome and other invisible medical conditions.

I speak for those taking care of children with special needs or elderly parents 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.

I speak for those with heart, lung and skeletal problems who are forced to limit their activities.

I speak for those with metabolic and endocrine conditions that cause weight gain.

I speak for those whose addictions have stolen their lives and who continue to wrestle invisible demons.

I speak for the masses of women afflicted by a never ending list of challenging circumstances which causes them to chose meeting their basic needs over any sort of leisure activity including fitness related activities and working out.

I’d also like to toss the don’t-judge-a-book-by-it’s-cover analogy in here, to point out that things aren’t always as they seem.

Meaning, it is possible for an athlete missing a limb to be in a better overall physical condition to engage in an exercise regime than let’s say a 30-something seemingly healthy woman suffering from depression and fibromyalgia.

Different people, different bodies, different states of health.

We must RESPECT all of these circumstances.

Like Maria Kang, the handicapped athlete has no right to point a judgmental finger at anyone else.

NOBODY has the right to point a judgmental finger in the faces of a society made up of people whose unique situations are a bazillion shades of grey.

Their story is not your story.

You haven’t lived their lives.

You have no right to point or challenge masses of people you know nothing about.

That is all.

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12 thoughts on “Maria Kang- Part 2… Oh NO, She Didn’t!!!

  1. I think its way outta hand i am a plus size person now but i get sick of hearing people saying ” Im fat cause I had kids ” no bull shit your fat the same reason i am cause you like your unhealthy food and hate exercise.I asssumed her post was because she was tired of hearing it as an excuse also.when i was younger i had kids and was smaller than her gie her a break geesh what ever happened to freedom of speech?

    • You obviously did not entirely comprehend my posts. The FACT is- some women DO have perfectly acceptable excuses called medical conditions, which happen to be a lot more prevalent in society than you may think.
      This is a SENSITIVITY issue and yes,she absolutely has freedom of speech. However, she has CHOSEN to knowingly roll over the self esteem of larger women (who make up a generous part of the population) by using negative tactics to promote her fitness busine$$.

      Anyone who choses fame and/or fortune over HUMANITY is a self serving opportunist.

  2. I think that although health and fitness are important and maintaining a healthy weight are good things. I think she is ding a lot more harm than good to the community she wants to support. She is bringing negativity and disrespect to the cause of health and weight loss instead of making it a positive experience.

  3. girl, you ROCK! i’m a teacher with two special needs children, one now 21 and doing well, the other almost 17 and still needing me to follow after her to keep her on track at school. i have fibromyalgia, depression and anxiety. i do deep-water aerobics in the summer but it’s not available now. i have food allergies, IBS and borderline diabetes. some of my meds cause weight gain and i had to switch migraine meds after gaining 15 pounds in six weeks. i’ve lost 20 but i am obese and i have a long way to go. i certainly don’t need some barbie in a sports bra to tell me how to do it.

  4. What everyone seems to be missing here is… she’s not a nurse, with that body. She’s not a teacher, with that body. Hell, she’s not even a construction worker, with that body. Her lively hood, her JOB, is her body. 8 to 10 hours a day, when most people are working a JOB for pay, she is working on her body. That’s her JOB.

    • I totally get that. Here’s the problem- she’s using NEGATIVE promotional tactics that inadvertently HURT and offend a large percentage of the population that do not necessarily follow her. They may not subscribe to her blog, but she’s in the news. It’s in their face.

      It’s the equivelent of the cosmetic dentistry industry mocking people with bad teeth.

      My position is firm- if you must sacrifice others to benefit your business venture, you are scum on scum.

    • That was a little backwards. I wasn’rt defending her. She seems to think we all have the same genetics material, lifestyle, and degree of wealth she does, that’s why we have no excuse. The difference is, in addition to all the other crap we deal with, we don’t have the 8 to 10 hours a day to devote to ourselves, even if we wanted to. Hell, no, there’s no excuse for her being such a (female dog), like she’s better than everyone else because we can see her bones. Speaking of which, if we starved a dog to where you could see the bones and muscle delineation, we’d be set on by the SPCA, but she thinks it looks good?

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